Genesis 12:1c
Genesis Study 86
LEAVE YOUR FATHER'S HOUSEHOLD
Genesis 12:1
Key verse 12:1c
"The Lord had said to Abram, 'Leave your country, your people and your father's household and go to the land I will show you.'"
In today's passage we want to study about God's command on Abram to leave his father's household.
When God had appeared to Abram in Ur, he commanded him to leave his country, his people and his father's household. Though it was very hard, Abram left his country and his people in obedience to God. However he could not leave his father's household. Instead he persuaded them to come along with him to the land God would show. It was not easy to convince each of them. His brother Nahor refused to close his business in Ur. All the women and servants feared to migrate to an unknown place. Moreover Abram's aged father eagerly wished to be buried with his ancestors. And he never wanted to leave his son Haran who had died before him. It took quite a long time for Abram persuade them one by one. At last they left Ur and reached Haran. They almost travelled 1000 km. Abram waited for God to show him the land to settle down. But there was no word from God. Instead what Abram heard was the serious complaint of his father's household. Without discussing with Abram they unpacked their luggage and settled there. By this time Abram also had no word to convince them. After sometime Haran became Abram's country and its people Abram's people. In spiritual point of view Abram came back to the starting point. He had to start all again. So when God commanded him again in Haran he did not say, "Leave your father's household." Instead God repeated his first command all again. I believe when God commanded him second time he must have emphasized the words "your father's household". Unless Abram left his father's household wherever he went he would remain as a same person in Ur. It was a very crucial moment in Abram's life of faith.
When Abram told his father about God's command, Terah cried and rebuked him, "I sacrificed my whole life to bring you up. But now do you want to desert me because I am old? If you don't care for your aged father, how can you possibly be a blessing for others? First be a blessing to me." Terah wanted Abram to remain as a good son to him only. But when God commanded Abram to leave his father's household, it did not mean God wanted Abram to desert them forever. God's plan was first to separate Abram from the household that was influenced by the world and second to grow Abram as a source of blessing for the world and his father's household as well. But as long as he stayed with his father's household, he would remain as a worldly man and die in his sin. Then his whole family would also die in sin along with Abram. This is tragedy. God loved not only Abram but also his father's household. So he commanded Abram to leave them and be a blessing for them.
Do we understand Abram's situation? I believe we do. Our parents never want us to leave them. They always want us to be near to them. In fact we also miss their love and the food our mothers prepare for us. Maybe that is why some of us keep on visiting their parents whenever they get holidays. When we go back to our parents' place we feel most comfortable. And as our parents grow older we feel a sense of obligation to support them in their old age. Among all gatherings first priority goes to our family gatherings such as marriage ceremony, naming ceremony, funeral ceremony, family tour and birthday party etc. Among all the wishes the best wish is for family's health and wealth. We believe our lives are given by our parents. If our parents are roots we are their branches. How can a branch survive without its root? So everyone finds it impossible to leave his or her father's household. This was the reason why Abram could not leave his father's household even though he left his country and his people in Ur. But in today's passage God commands us to leave our fathers' households. How can we obey this command? How could Abram obey it?
Although Abram was born of his mother and brought up by his father, it was God who granted him the parents. In other words it was God who gave him life through his parents. God used his parents to bring him up. If Terah was Abram's earthly father God is his Everlasting Father. God knew Abram before he was formed in his mother's womb. God would take care of Abram all the days of his life. After his death God would take him to his everlasting kingdom to be with him forever. God commanded Abram to leave his earthly father so that he might have personal relationship with his Everlasting Father. God knew what was best for Abram much better than Terah. God would grow Abram not mealy as a good son of an old man but as a source of blessing for all mankind. Terah and his household would also be blessed by Abram. I don't know how much Abram understood the meaning of God's calling. But I believe by this time he understood God's will much deeper than the first call. So he could make a decision to leave his father's household and go to the land his Heavenly Father would show him. When Abram obeyed God's command, God himself took care of Abram's father's household. Later Rebekah, a woman of faith, would grow from his brother Nahor's family to marry Abram's son Isaac. When Abram left his father's household God formed a heavenly household by adopting all believers as Abram's spiritual children.
Now God commands us, "Leave your father's household and go to the land I will show you." God knows how dear our fathers' households are to us. But he commands us to leave them and go to the land our Heavenly Father will show us. There he will grow us as his holy children. When we become God's holy children, God will again use us to bring our earthly families to him. This is the way how we can be a true blessing to our fathers' households. But if we refuse this calling not only we but also our fathers' households will perish in sin. We use different languages and have different nationalities and cultures. But we are one family in God. I eagerly pray that we may obey God as our Everlasting Father and love each other as true brothers and sisters in him.



